“The day you came to my life was the great days of all. I still remember our first sight love for each other. You were mad for me, your possessiveness was matchless. I still remember the day you hold my hand and promised me to be with me through every thick and thin, you made me assured that your love for me will never end. We were in a relationship but you my love you left me. You left me empty handed, I cried and cried and cried but you left me, you forget everything. There I realized I have lost everything in search of you. I waited for you till my last breath and finally I left the world. The girl who was part of your soul is now buried under the clay”.
These were the lines which made me cry. I don’t know why people involve in a relationship when they can’t handle it. Whatever is the reason, a true partner will never leave you alone in this greedy world. People talk about relationships; commitments etc. but do you even know the meaning of relationship????Relationships are how we relate to others. Almost everyone has suffered painful and sadness when falling in love. That is an inevitable part when two people are in love with each other. We have relationships with everyone we know and those who are close to us. We have to ask ourselves if our relationships are supportive, and if they are not, then ask why they are not. To love, we have to fall in love with reality – with what’s true right now, not with what might be true in the future or with what we want to be true in the future. Love happens in the now (like everything, really). Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing. Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. Love is needing someone. Love is putting up with someone’s bad qualities because they somehow complete you. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes
You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect – you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break – her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.
“Love is never supposed to hurt. Love is supposed to heal, to be your haven from misery, to make living worthwhile”.
By: Ammara Siddique